Every day at school is an opportunity to learn, not only for the children, but also for the teachers and for me, as director.
In this school we have rules: boys must keep their hair shaved for hygiene reasons and to prevent lice, while girls can wear it long but always braided close to their heads. It is a necessary measure in an environment like ours.
A few months ago, a new student, Daniel, arrived with the Rasta. At the time of enrollment I had not noticed his hair, but at the beginning of the school year I realized that it would be necessary to adapt to the rule. So, I asked his dad to cut Daniel's hair. The father's reaction, however, was completely unexpected. He told me that when, as a child, they cut his hair, Daniel had become so seriously ill that he risked his life. From then on, it was unthinkable for them to repeat that experience.
At first I was surprised and a little amused by his answer, but on reflection I realized that sometimes certain beliefs, linked to superstitions and deep fears, are difficult to eradicate. So I decided to find a compromise and invited father and son to my office, offering them an unexpected solution: we would shave only the back of the hair and, to reassure them, I would pray for Daniel's health. I also promised that, if the child became ill, I would personally cover the costs of medical treatment; if he remained healthy, we would have confirmation that prayer had protected him.
The father was puzzled, but he accepted. The next day, Daniel went back to school with part of his hair shaved and, thankfully, he was doing great. But there was still one obstacle to overcome: Daniel's grandfather. In this patriarchal community, the grandfather, the head of the family, has a great influence on family decisions, and he was still convinced that cutting his grandson's hair could pose a serious danger.
It was Daniel, however, who reassured him with a disarming simplicity and a trust that moved me: “The director prayed for me, you don't have to worry.” This answer convinced his grandfather, who finally made it possible to complete the haircut.
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When Daniel returned to school with short hair like other children and a smile that reflected his serenity, it was a special moment. It reminded me how trust and faith can help overcome cultural differences and deep fears, creating a sense of community that goes beyond difficulties.
Daniel's story taught me that, with a little understanding and a few small compromises, we can create small everyday miracles, even within the walls of a school.
- Desiree